Mental health
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Be a good girl friend!

Published on
August 12, 2024
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Tend Health
One of Aotearoa's leading primary healthcare providers
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Be a good girl friend

Friendships are the backbone of a happy life, and the sisterhood plays a unique role in supporting each other through life’s ups and downs. Being a good friend means being there for one another—especially when it comes to health.

This week we invite you to check in on your friends' health and wellbeing. Our mission is simple: to encourage people to spill the tea, open up about their health and share their stories in a supportive, friendly environment.

Opening up about health can be daunting, but when it’s a chat with a good friend, it becomes much easier.

If you are stuck on what to ask, browse our conversation starters, tailored to different age groups.

In your 20s

  • What ways do you reconnect with yourself away from screens?
  • Have you discovered any fitness apps or online classes that you love?
  • What’s your current favourite healthy snack?
  • Got any good tips for keeping things safe and fun in the bedroom?
  • Have you been somewhere or tried something new lately that you really loved?

In your 30s

  • What’s one thing you do each day to keep your mental health in check?
  • Thoughts on those fancy health gadgets: gimmick or game-changer?
  • What’s your favourite high protein meal or snack?
  • How do you keep things fresh and exciting in your relationship?
  • Is there a book or movie that has inspired you lately?

In your 40s

  • What’s your night time routine like to help you get enough sleep?
  • What are your favourite low impact exercises that are gentle on the joints?
  • Do you have any meal prep tips that save you time during the week?
  • How's the battle with middle-aged hormones going? Any secret weapons?
  • What’s one thing that never fails to make you laugh?

In your 50s

  • How do you relax? Any inspiring reads or shows?"
  • Advice for staying fabulous after 50—what's your secret to aging like fine wine?
  • Are there any supplements or vitamins you can’t live without?"
  • Thoughts on gracefully embracing the next chapter of life?
  • How do you stay connected and enjoy your social life?

60 and beyond

  • How are you keeping your mind sharp and engaged as you hit your golden years?
  • What's your trick to staying cheery and youthful, even when the calendar begs to differ?
  • What foods do you swear by to stay healthy?
  • How do you navigate doctor's appointments without feeling like you're collecting stamps?
  • What’s the most rewarding part of this stage in your life?

How to use and share these

  • Next time you get your friends together, bring them up in conversation. Or create your own questions!
  • Talk about and share on Instagram Stories or TikTok and use #WHWNZ